Guess the most awaited time... !! Yes it was my loving brother,a closest friend Yeshu's betrothal. Ah... D journey to find the right gal for him was horrible... Loads of obstacles. . Veetakatipar kalyanam pannipar is a famous phrase in tamil. Now the earlier has become so simple as loads of companies had come up but the later however you have market players to find the life partner, its ultimately our responsibility to choose our desired partner...
After his assent for marriage, finding the gal took 6 months.. Ofcourse its a lifetime decision and 6 months s not a bad time. But ma perima was in a tremendous pressure jus in six months without thinking the pressures she ll undergo in the future..;) Whereve you go, network follows and the question for my perima " Epama pullaiku kalyanam" also follows.. Alas!! bad day for her then ...
Horoscope matching plays the vital role in hindu marriages. Personally we may be positive about an alliance but astrologically it wont set.. Pochu..!!! Start from the beginning.. Most recently used webpage when you open your internet will be ssmatri and few other matrimonial sites.. Matrimonial sites are yet another trouble givers with their numerous calls asking for membership up gradation and they ll allocate atleast 2000 profiles from which we can select. However one good thing is it provides avenues for permissible bird watching...
Hmmm... At the end of successful 6 months, we discovered the gal .. cha.. she was in Madipakkam not anywhere else in d world.. made us search for 6 months .. Dey should ve given the advertisement in tamras a little earlier. Hmmm.. alrite all for good only... !!!
Now the next interesting thing is ponnu pathufying... Arranged for a 8 seater vehicle but got only 6 seater and were 7. All successfully got seat but except the hero of the show yeshu... Ha ha... He struggled sitting between two seats.. D journey to madipakkam yet another comedy we kept on going from the most densly populated brahmin area in the city. Crossed loadsa hairpin bends to reach the place to see my brother's angel... Had sojji bajji as usual.. and a nice coffee aswell... Finally said YES for the gal and we started. In a 10 days span there you go Yeshu.., its yo betrothal... purchases, tnagar, had a happy evening the week before to the betrothal where d gal had also come .. Hey Yeshu.. too much of blushing.... !!!! Hmmm.. seri leave ... adakam..adakam... Habba the day then ended ...
Now about the gal... Sangeetha... Youngest of four in the family. An active and a charming gal who has diverse interest in various fields such as Music, sports, karate etc.. Who wins elders hearts very easily and become their pet in a very short span.. won my perima's heart especially..:)
Bethrothal day 5th dec 2011.. Wow... super jolly day...
All the best da Yeshu.. Wishing you goodluck in yo life.. Name anything, you ll have in yo lyf... God bless!:)
Saturday, December 17, 2011
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Changing culture
Wanted to write this for so long.. Did not get write time... !! Rather did not think to write for this long months..
An year back, my journey time to my work was so worst.Infact that itself acts as a work everyday.. . My beautiful city will make to me travel for 2 hours just for 14 kms. All my journey in the evening will be thundering.
I once visited a one of the leading bakeries in chennai in a noisy, polluted evening on my way back from office as i was extremely hungry. The bakery is in Bazullah road.. My brother always takes the pleasure of picking me from office to make my journey a lil shorter.
We both are extremely hungry and we entered the bakery jus to have some mlid snack. And we both decided to order a pizza. They had to heat the pizza and serve us. Pizza had come and we asked for wash basin or atleast a glass of water to wash hands as we were travelling in the most polluted areas in the city. The bakery workers said, they do not have water and on asking for water again they showed us a most unclean toilet where they asked us to wash hands if we needed to. Uveee!! I cant cant imagine.. When we asked for atleast spoon which we saw few others were using to eat cakes, the shop workers lightly responded that this particular item wont get spoon and you have to eat it like that.
We then came out telling we do not want the pizza.
We got so much irritated and we came out. Is this westernization a good one..!! I honestly do not think so...This is leading to us the path where we stopped seeing many things like dresses are becoming shorter day by day.. We do not care to override our ancestral customs and traditions.. Is this is the results of education and the money we fetch out of the same.. We were so civilized before, I think we misunderstood many things and started following a wrong practices which were socially unacceptable in the country.
When my grandpa was Village municef, the people were not allowed to drink alcohol. Drinking alcohol was considered as a sin. But now that is socially acceptable.
In this 21st century even girls started without understanding the fact that their biological set up would cause many troubles..
Hmmm... cha.. travelled a long rather deviated a lot from the topic with which i started with..
You know guys , I never go to the kayendhibavans as i have a preconceived notion that those are not located in clean and tidy places. My parents used to instruct us (Ma sis &me) that not to eat anything from outside when we were young.. I strictly followed till my age of 22. Now eating from kayendhibhavans as they atleast have a water in a jug to wash hands..!!
An year back, my journey time to my work was so worst.Infact that itself acts as a work everyday.. . My beautiful city will make to me travel for 2 hours just for 14 kms. All my journey in the evening will be thundering.
I once visited a one of the leading bakeries in chennai in a noisy, polluted evening on my way back from office as i was extremely hungry. The bakery is in Bazullah road.. My brother always takes the pleasure of picking me from office to make my journey a lil shorter.
We both are extremely hungry and we entered the bakery jus to have some mlid snack. And we both decided to order a pizza. They had to heat the pizza and serve us. Pizza had come and we asked for wash basin or atleast a glass of water to wash hands as we were travelling in the most polluted areas in the city. The bakery workers said, they do not have water and on asking for water again they showed us a most unclean toilet where they asked us to wash hands if we needed to. Uveee!! I cant cant imagine.. When we asked for atleast spoon which we saw few others were using to eat cakes, the shop workers lightly responded that this particular item wont get spoon and you have to eat it like that.
We then came out telling we do not want the pizza.
We got so much irritated and we came out. Is this westernization a good one..!! I honestly do not think so...This is leading to us the path where we stopped seeing many things like dresses are becoming shorter day by day.. We do not care to override our ancestral customs and traditions.. Is this is the results of education and the money we fetch out of the same.. We were so civilized before, I think we misunderstood many things and started following a wrong practices which were socially unacceptable in the country.
When my grandpa was Village municef, the people were not allowed to drink alcohol. Drinking alcohol was considered as a sin. But now that is socially acceptable.
In this 21st century even girls started without understanding the fact that their biological set up would cause many troubles..
Hmmm... cha.. travelled a long rather deviated a lot from the topic with which i started with..
You know guys , I never go to the kayendhibavans as i have a preconceived notion that those are not located in clean and tidy places. My parents used to instruct us (Ma sis &me) that not to eat anything from outside when we were young.. I strictly followed till my age of 22. Now eating from kayendhibhavans as they atleast have a water in a jug to wash hands..!!
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